Maybe that is because sometimes we want it that way; that way we get to choose the fight, the weapons, and the outcome.
God is waiting for us to let him choose our battles, our weapons, and our outcomes, to learn to do his will, his way, in his time – for his glory and purposes.
Peace be with the saints and faith with love from God the Father and the Lord Jesus Christ. Grace be with all those who love the Lord with an undying love.
Your friend and brother in the good fight,